10 Things I Wish I Knew I Was A Child

Before starting to read, first of all read the note on the last part of the page.


1. Environmental influence: The decision maker if you are not an  exception.

The person you are today, the way you think, react to stimuli, the way you handle tasks everything goes into the major share of deciding factor: environmental influence. People in our surroundings which can be parents or any guardians you got are very much responsible for you personality provided you have spent your childhood and teenage with them like a normal kid. There is no denying of the fact that trustworthy beings are always followed in society as well as a common human tendency. A baby or a kid is the best observer of his/her parents, the way the do everything be it bad/good unless you are an exception like some renown lads.



2. Taking efforts  in the right way in the right order

Each and every person reading this has heard at-least once in their life that for success, 'smart-work' rather than 'hard-work' is necessary. This point focuses on the better definition of 'smart-work'. First of all, the task is to be determined then analyze every possibilities of completing the task and then distribute time and labor accordingly giving comparatively more time to the most prior-ed. Had I known this earlier, I could have been more than what I am today.



3. Being good always ? You are going to lose worse in the battle of life !

Values, morals, ethics are better on books and quotes of mouth. A hard core believer of values has chances of getting jinxed in the race. So, basically what I am saying is not to be bad but rather balance the either ones in case to save ourselves from falling into something which we don't like. Cheer up ! Sometimes you have to be a bad guy.





4. The limit to everything should be known even goodness and badness.

Sometimes there comes times of life where you did things after knowing they were wrong. After thinking a bit to retract from that, thinking a while but then you forget what you were up-to and just proceed in the harming experience gathering. This point is in mere relevance to the previous one. Defending oneself from bad from doing bad and putting one into bad is what the goodness and badness is like. Your decisions should always be like a set of infinite stairs consisting of good and bad stairs. Make sure you always put the good minded stair always up no matter what.




5. Put the 'Nothing i Impossible' quote in the right place in your mind.

These days are not like there have been centuries ago. People are very narrow-minded and selfish nowadays. It's a disadvantage when we are lazy. Sometimes there will be time when you wanted to complete a non-sense task and the lazy mind will pull you over, but as far as interest is concern, you are hard-core influenced and you put the quote 'NII' and next thing is waste of time enjoying. May be you got the idea what to do with this famous quote. 



6. Figure what matters for you and why and why, no matter what it may be.

Confusion is the causing factor for this 
reason or I should say suggestion as most of the points suggests so. Stability, calmness and patience are prerequisites to sit alone or with anyone better you know and go on and draw out the problems which are leading to it honestly and jot it down. Eliminate the crabs, don't cheat yourself and your life and rite down what you really want and keep those wishes which has a strong backup alias the 'why' question.



7. Fear and laziness are man's biggest enemy.

The biggest regret I have today in the age of where adult consideration starts is that I was afraid of some stuffs. Even if for one  or some other reason I have to do something I fear, there was no any mental trigger or even a pinch of dedication, this is called laziness or better if I say the effects of laziness. Our brain is a very complicated organ composed of chemicals. When these chemicals react to give a laziness effect to our body, no matter the reason they were triggered, you are like unproductive and casual. This    continues in us without being noticed and 
makes us a lazy lad.



8. Everybody has a mad desire for 'something' which could be "anything". Choose it wisely !

When I was writing this up, I don't had a clear idea for the starting, but I made my mind even if it was not ready and forced myself that "I have to do, there must be some way." This was my "anything" which works most of the time I do it. Mad desires doesn't come all of a sudden, it comes as result of work and study from earlier. May be this point will be a bit confusing for some, but still I want my readers to study this carefully and apply in the parts of life.



9. Invest mostly on body  and mind without compromising the either one.

No being in the planet doesn't wants that he/she doesn't gets better, has better wealth, prosperity, fame or in other words no one will resort to be successful. But the starting point is difficult. Believe me, mind and body are the only responsible for what we are today and what we were. I would request, even beg in all way possible to please invest on the well being on their mid and body. Limit masturbation and porn for those who are involved one and instead do some  stretching exercises and meditation. I know how it feels like masturbating after some time, this is the moment we forget  the good and bad and we are like trapped in the clutches of pleasure. This happens even to the most innocent and well mannered guy in your class. My suggestion will be not to stop because it's nearly impossible for teens to stop when they go through a movie or adult film, rather I would suggest to do it in limit like once in a month.



10. Never cheat yourself, not even unknowingly.

The reason why people don't live up to their expectations is because they don't work out for that not because they don't want, neither do they deserve. It's  ultimately your effort which could bring you somewhere you want to be. Bullshit all the religious doings, taking gem stones, wearing lockets, ropes and all the other non-sense stuffs. Cheating's definition is your inability or better if inactivity of yours resulting ruining your life.






NOTE: There are many blogs, videos where people suggest and write about those I wrote above. In the above points, I have given remedies to rectify or get yourself safe from what mistakes I did till 17 years of my life. Now, I am a grown up adult, and making good use of my experience, I want you to please carefully go through the above points, who knows your life may take a better turn or you come to know some of the conflicted questions you had in your mind till now. For a moment, forget you have limited time and go thoroughly through each and every line and understand clearly.